Is it normal to play games? The people who believe that the games spoil the TV have not translated, negatively affect the state of the mind, and generally consider the phenomenon of the game as such ugly and not normal, what is your opinion on this subject.
A little about myself: I’m 27 years old, I am a financier by education, I work as a manager in one who was not a big desk located in the city of Krasnodar, and I devote some part of the time to the games, Assassins Creed, Call of Duty, Resident Evil, Stalker, recently took up the study of military equipment in the World of Tanks, but here’s the trouble. The girl believes that this is very bad, and on entertainment of this kind should be spent no more than a few hours a week. I naturally disagree with her. In general, we comment, we share our opinions, maybe knowledge, maybe some other situation, ask questions, we get answers. For obvious reasons, the opinion of the fair sex is especially interesting, if he certainly judges us his attention!
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A couple of centuries ago, as historical sources say (I can’t say in memory), it was considered a useless and stupid occupation, to devote most of his time to reading books (however, no one objected to collective readings), physical games, etc.D.
A few decades ago, it was considered a useless and stupid occupation, devote most of its time to watching TV, it is better to read the book.
Now it is considered a useless and stupid occupation, devote most of its time to computer games, it is better to watch TV.
In a couple of decades, it will be considered a useless and stupid occupation, devote most of its time of virtual reality (matrix?), it’s better to play computer games ..
Of course to score on a girl and her opinion is not worth it, it is fraught. Here, in my opinion, there are several ways:
1) change her opinion by attracting her to the computer. (For example, once carried the girlfriend of a computer with games showing her Alice Madness Returns, was delighted as she was fond of psychedelic and similar things. That is, you can also play on its certain attachments, hobbies. But there is a significant minus – inevitable, buying a second PC)
2) change her opinion by indicating her hobbies, hobbies. Give examples and clearly show that it is no better than your. However, this is not a way out, since the topic will come up again soon.
3) Talk to her seriously about the prioritization. But it’s even worse.
Of course, you can bring several more options, possible solutions of this problem, but it seems to me all this – half measures.
In fact, she is just unconsciously jealous of you to your computer! She wants you, all the time you spend in front of the monitor, spent with her and only. She does not have enough attention 🙂
However, take into account that this is all clean and specifically IMHO.
My opinion is that the games are not here in business. If you say, selflessly drank miniature models of weapons from matches 0_o The situation would be similar. Simply, public opinion is now such that the computer. Games are the prerogative of children, besides harmful, let’s say how sweets. And a priori, all who are not connected with the computer games, believe that adults should not do this because they should never! If the cutting of miniature models of weapons from matches would be the main occupation of children in kindergarten, then the attitude of your girlfriend to this children’s lesson would be similar. But we are known.
The girl is justified? No, I https://anonym-bet.co.uk/games/ didn’t hear. Not well, honestly, most girls can never prove anything really (there are exceptions and they become more and more with the age of these girls). But my advice to you, put it on the games yourself, but before that I would have been in order that there is another computer, otherwise you will not play tanks.
This is, for example, the attitude of many ignorants to rock as harmful teenage fun. It is like an attitude towards Viktor Tsoi, as a idol of 15 year olds … but we know. After all, we know the truth! Stereotypes. They are not just eradicated, they are very tenacious ..
Bullshit! Sorry. I play all the men! All! Only in different games. Some in the computers, others in cars, others in fishing, fourth still in something! She can never give any arguments. It just doesn’t sound very when they are sitting with friends, one saying, “my hunt is all,” and the other is “and my everything is in the garage, and yours are what is busy with what is busy?”, And yours -” And mine plays (“and you know everything so” FIII!”Although they all have the same problem! If they can somehow understand cars and fishing, then they are not able to understand the games.
Therefore, I agree with you, I need to get to our camp! I think it is worth starting with something like this mmm type SIMS!
From all this conclusion.
It is worth gaining eloquence and put everything on the table!
Moreover, I am sure that the conversation should not be “by the way”, but planned, you need to put all the dots over I and cross out everything t. You must make it clear that because of her unstable opinion you will not quit (besides, you should not naively assume that by throwing computers, you won’t do anything), only you can’t even close, puts on different bowls of her weights and games! You need to convince that your opinion is authoritative, but it is not, you are right, and she Not good). But even if she agrees with your arguments, doesn’t matter concessions should be on both sides. For example, you play less (well for an hour a day), and it calms down and turns off the saw.
After all, carried away by computers, you are at least at home)
Something like this, I don’t know what else can be done, in my opinion it will be the most effective.
P.S. I said all that could ..
Just games are developing;) The fact is that in any business you can “overdo”. There are a lot of examples. There are many workaholics who do not notice anything at work, neither the family nor the children. They only strive for their happiness – work. And politicians, especially during the years of change, they also spit through people, they go to their conceited goal, crossing through the lives of many! Legionnaires are mercenaries who receive money for other people’s lives! Drivers truckers, for months are not at home. The same submariners. And gamers? Than they are worse or better? In any business, there are our frames and boundaries and the truth is that we create all these boundaries, only we ourselves, in our heads, based only on personal motives and priorities.
And if we talk about your example, then the same players in Lineej, they know, in fact, what they are going to, they themselves wanted, this is their choice. And for the consequences to answer them! And no Layneje in particular, nor the game as a whole, here. Moreover, only the self -awareness of certain people.
Again IMHO.
I say, unconsciously, subconsciously. This suggests that she does not know why she really does not like the game, she will not be able to adequately and constructively explain.
Alex84 told us that it does not require an ultimatically, complete and unconditional refusal of games, but only wants to have been spent on them no more than a few hours a week.
Therefore, we can assume a lack of attention, although of course we cannot know the complete picture of the relationship Alex84`a and his girlfriend ..
Play games absolutely normal. Games are the same art as books, films, painting (and sometimes better! For example, the same TES, say, Daggerfall, much better than books like “The World of Witches” … Although is the last art of the last? But this is not about this). Therefore, if you decide not to play games, then burn paintings, books and DVDs, break up TVs and monitors, Teach museums and arrange chaos and sodomia.
well, she’s wrong, but how much time she gives to a chatter with her friends and shopping for shops??
Yes, there is such, but not in the form of a rule. And sorry. Not many people, especially Soviet education, have broad views (
Here everyone has their own position, I don’t care, because at the more time, I sit at the computer exclusively for watching films and communication. Although I cannot understand those people who consider the games to be something destructive or evil, because in fact, watching TV is never more useful, so now it’s just the time that it is slowly becoming an integral part of our lives, they will gradually understand everything ..
She is a girl, you won’t agree with the female sex, in any business there is a place for a calm dialogue, and each person is really convinced, but I don’t have such a perk, or the ability is not pumped 🙂
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